Hablar del sexo siempre es un tema peliagudo. Ya sea porque es una de las cosas más en privado que realiza el ser humano, porque se puede enfocar erróneamente desde diferentes puntos de vista o porque en una sociedad que no es madura es mejor hacer la vista gorda y no afrontar el desafío. Sobre todo cuando una persona llega a la adolescencia.
En este caso, vamos a abordar este tema desde una perspectiva totalmente informativa, con vocabulario relacionado con el tema, cómo si fuese una clase de biología, incluyendo conceptos y términos que todo el mundo debe saber.
Además, he incluído tres tipos de conversaciones entre un hombre y una mujer que pueden darse en cualquier sitio público:
Inglés |
Español |
Ejemplo |
Sexual intercourse |
Relaciones sexuales |
We had sexual intercourse last night. (Tuvimos relaciones sexuales anoche) |
Orgasm |
Orgasmo |
She had an orgasm during sex. (Ella tuvo un orgasmo durante el sexo) |
Masturbation |
Masturbación |
He enjoys masturbation as part of his sexual routine. (Él disfruta de la masturbación como parte de su rutina sexual) |
Ejaculation |
Eyaculación |
Premature ejaculation can be a common issue for some men. (La eyaculación precoz puede ser un problema común para algunos hombres) |
Contraception |
Anticoncepción |
She’s taking contraception to avoid pregnancy. (Ella está tomando anticoncepción para evitar el embarazo) |
Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) |
Infecciones de transmisión sexual (ITS) |
Using condoms can help prevent sexually transmitted infections. (Usar condones puede ayudar a prevenir infecciones de transmisión sexual) |
Foreplay |
Juegos previos |
We enjoyed an extended session of foreplay before having sex. (Disfrutamos de una sesión prolongada de juegos previos antes de tener relaciones sexuales) |
Intimacy |
Intimidad |
They share a deep level of intimacy in their relationship. (Ellos comparten un nivel profundo de intimidad en su relación) |
Libido |
Libido |
Stress can affect your libido and sexual desire. (El estrés puede afectar su libido y deseo sexual) |
Sexual orientation |
Orientación sexual |
Everyone should be free to express their sexual orientation without fear of discrimination. (Todos deberían ser libres de expresar su orientación sexual sin temor a la discriminación) |
ESexual dysfunction |
Disfunción sexual |
Erectile dysfunction is a common sexual dysfunction that affects many men. (La disfunción eréctil es una disfunción sexual común que afecta a muchos hombres) |
Reproductive health |
Salud reproductiva |
Regular check-ups are important for maintaining reproductive health. (Los chequeos regulares son importantes para mantener la salud reproductiva) |
Gender identity |
Identidad de género |
People should be allowed to express their true gender identity. (Las personas deberían ser libres de expresar su verdadera identidad de género) |
Menstruation |
Menstruación |
She experiences painful cramps during menstruation. (Ella experimenta calambres dolorosos durante la menstruación) |
Fertility |
Fertilidad |
Age can affect a woman’s fertility and ability to conceive. (La edad puede afectar la fertilidad de una mujer y su capacidad para concebir) |
Infertility |
Infertilidad |
Infertility can be a challenging issue for couples trying to conceive. (La infertilidad puede ser un problema desafiante para las parejas que intentan concebir) |
Sexual consent |
Consentimiento sexual |
Sexual consent is important for any sexual activity. (El consentimiento sexual es importante para cualquier actividad sexual) |
Sexual harassment |
Acoso sexual |
Sexual harassment in the workplace is illegal and unacceptable. (El acoso sexual en el lugar de trabajo es ilegal e inaceptable) |
Pornography |
Pornografía |
Pornography can have a negative impact on some people’s attitudes towards sex. (La pornografía puede tener un impacto negativo en las actitudes de algunas personas hacia el sexo) |
Conversación 1:
Woman: Hey, do you have a minute to talk about something personal?
Man: Sure, what’s on your mind?
Woman: Well, I’ve been thinking a lot about our sex life lately. I feel like we’ve been in a bit of a rut and I’d like to try some new things.
Man: I completely understand. I’ve been feeling the same way. What do you have in mind?
Woman: I was thinking we could start by exploring some different positions. Maybe we could try some that we haven’t before.
Man: That sounds great. I’m definitely up for trying some new things. What else were you thinking?
Woman: Well, I’ve also been curious about incorporating some light BDSM into our play. Nothing too extreme, just maybe some light bondage or spanking.
Man: That’s definitely something we can explore together. I’ve always been open to experimenting with different kinks.
Woman: I’m so glad to hear that. I think it’s important for us to continue to explore our sexuality and push each other’s boundaries.
Man: Agreed. I feel like our sex life has the potential to be even better than it already is. Let’s make it a priority to keep things fresh and exciting between us.
Woman: I couldn’t agree more. I feel like our connection is even stronger when we’re able to explore our desires and needs together.
Man: Absolutely. I’m grateful to have such an open and honest relationship with you, both in and out of the bedroom.
Woman: Me too. I love you.
Man: I love you too.
Conversación 2:
Man: Hey, I’ve had a really great time talking to you tonight. Would you like to come back to my place for a nightcap?
Woman: I’ve had a great time too. Sure, I’d love to come back to your place.
Man: Great, just so you know, I’m interested in you and I’d like to explore a physical connection with you. But I also want to make sure that you’re comfortable and that we’re on the same page.
Woman: I appreciate your honesty. I’m definitely attracted to you too, and I’m open to exploring a physical connection with you. But I also want to make sure that we’re both on the same page and that we’re respectful of each other’s boundaries.
Man: Absolutely, I completely agree. Consent is incredibly important to me, and I want to make sure that we’re both comfortable with everything that happens tonight. Would you like to set some boundaries or talk about what you’re comfortable with?
Woman: Sure, I think that’s a good idea. I’m open to exploring some things, but there are some things that I’m not comfortable with. How about we take things slow and see where the night takes us?
Man: That sounds perfect to me. I want to make sure that you feel safe and respected throughout the night. And of course, if there’s anything you’re not comfortable with, please let me know.
Woman: Thank you, I appreciate that. I feel like we have a good connection and I’m excited to see where this goes.
Man: Me too, I’m excited to explore this connection with you. But again, please know that your comfort and boundaries are my top priority.
Woman: I feel like we’re on the same page, and that makes me feel really good about this. Let’s head back to your place and see where the night takes us.
Conversación 3:
Woman: I really enjoyed the movie tonight. Thanks for taking me out.
Man: It was my pleasure. I’m glad you enjoyed it.
Woman: So, I was thinking that instead of going home right away, would you like to come over to my place for a glass of wine? We could chat and unwind a bit.
Man: That sounds great, I’d love that.
Woman: Great, I have a nice bottle of red that we can share. And maybe after a glass or two, we could see where the night takes us.
Man: I would like that a lot, but I just want to make sure that we’re both on the same page here.
Woman: Of course, I understand. I want you to know that I’m interested in exploring a physical connection with you, but only if you’re comfortable with it.
Man: I’m definitely interested in you too, and I’m open to exploring a physical connection with you. But I want to make sure that we’re both on the same page and that we’re respectful of each other’s boundaries.
Woman: I completely understand. Consent is really important to me, and I want to make sure that we’re both comfortable with everything that happens tonight. How about we take things slow and see where the night takes us?
Man: That sounds perfect to me. I want to make sure that you feel safe and respected throughout the night. And of course, if there’s anything you’re not comfortable with, please let me know.
Woman: Thank you, I appreciate that. I feel like we have a good connection and I’m excited to see where this goes.
Man: Me too, I’m excited to explore this connection with you. But again, please know that your comfort and boundaries are my top priority.
Woman: I feel like we’re on the same page, and that makes me feel really good about this. Let’s head back to my place and see where the night takes us.